Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

The ones who waited all night for him to call, only to check the caller ID the next morning and be disappointed.



The ones who made it through that bitter break up, dried



your own tears, and moved on with your life, only to have him walk back in it months later like nothing ever happened.



Those of you who cried on the first day you talked again because you knew exactly where this phone call was going.



The ones who listened to him say, I only want to be your friend,



one day, and the next, listened to him say how much he loves and misses you.



We deserve something, and this is our tribute.



Here's to the ones that took him back, hoping that maybe this time, he was different, hoping that maybe people really do change.



We listened to our friends tell us that we were stupid for even thinking about giving him another chance, caught crap from our parents, and even snuck around to see him for a while.



We went through the great stage with no fights all over again. We started this out thinking it would be just friends, and ended up falling in love with him again.



We wanted nothing more in the world than to hear him tell us he loved us too, that even though things were bad in the past, they would be different this time. And when we finally heard it, it was like we were dreaming. This is for us.



Here's to the ones who believed what he said, sat around all over again waiting for a phone call that might come in a few hours, or a few days.



Here's for the tears cried and dried all over again. We wanted so



desperately to believe that he was really busy, he couldn't possibly call us at that moment, or even that he fell asleep early.



We trained ourselves to believe the lies because we wanted to believe we had found the one for us.



We learned to SETTLE for someone who didn't treat us the way we should be treated.



Here's for the ones who did their hair and make up and put on their prettiest earrings, only to hear him say that he couldn't see us today.



The ones who never believed it when people told us there might be someone else. We just couldn't believe that he could do this to us again.



This is for those great girls, who loved him more than words can say, and took him back no matter what happened last time because they couldn't bear to look back on their lives one day and wonder "what if".



Here's to the girls who couldn't cry to their friends because of how stupid they felt. The ones who held it all in when things came crumbling to pieces again.



This is for the ones who couldn't bear to even tell their mom what was going on, for fear of an "I told you so."



The ones that could just TELL that they had made a mistake ever allowing him into their hearts, their beds, and their dreams again.



We knew that we deserved better the entire time, that we deserved a guy who would call when he said he was going to, one that would come see us whenever he got the chance, one that would really care about us. We just wanted the one that we loved like that.



Here's for the ones that FINALLY realized that he never gave a crap about them.



Here's for the time that he broke your heart again. This is for those days spent trying to hold back the tears, and the tears that turned into anger, then disappointment.



Here's for us girls who finally realized that we



deserve better. This is for those confusing days, when you miss him, and want nothing more than to hear his voice, or feel his arms around your waist. Stay strong, and remember that relationships are like broken glass, sometimes it's better to leave it alone rather than try to put the pieces back together and get hurt. Remember the times you cried, and how long it



took you to even be able to look at another guy like that.



******When "your song" comes on the radio, turn the station. When the day comes that he realizes what a mistake he made and tries calling, turn your phone off. When he tries coming to your house, don't answer the door. Think of the broken promises, and the lies, the manipulation and the tears, the wasted moments and staying up all night wondering where the crap he was. Think of how your heart used to jump when your phone would vibrate in the middle of the night, and how it fell to your stomach when you saw it wasn't him, and realized that once again, he hadn't called when he said he was going to.*********



One day, you'll find a guy who's worth all the tears, but he won't make you cry. You may think that you'll never care about someone like you did that guy that you always ran back to, but you will. It's gonna hurt like crap, and it's going to need time to heal, but the point is, it will heal.



This is for those girls, who fell back in love with their ex, only to



get hurt all over again.



Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

omg, im crying right now... u have just spelled out every single relationship i have ever been in all on one page... and i want to take my hat off to u, u have it pinned, u know exactly what this life has brought to so many of us girls, and how these men make us feel. but i want to also send a lasting message to every girl that reads this, what has been stated here is completely true, it DOES get better, i have found exactly the type of guy that all girls deserve to have, he treats me with the upmost respect and he loves me more than life itself, u have to forget the past lovers and move on to new ones it will be many and it will be hard to deal with how many times ur heart is broken, but u have to keep moving forward because the more u do the better ur chances of finding that special mr right, keep going, and ull all be just fine!



Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

i hate when this happens...only i moved on and now i been with a guy for 4 years and i feel i wanna be single again



Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

love is patient and kind not angry and unforgiving turning the song yeah giving up never



Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

I know, we have all been through that. I had a realtionship once, and i desperatly broke up becuase i thought he was going to break up with me... Then we hooked up, and later got married! :)



Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

that was long!!! but way true!!! its happened so many times, i seem to fall for it! but the truth is, i cant help myself, the way they look at u! and say "im sorry" it gets me everytime!!! well i gtg my ex boyfriend is calling! AGAIN! and maybe now i can say that small word, NO!



Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

yes omg that is so true



Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

Nope. X is X. No second chance.



Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

all applies at least once in a girls life.



Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

im going through this now lol sadly enough an idk wat to do i posted a question over it. but after 6 months i jus dont know what to do ne more.



Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

ugh!! it sucks that we know we deserve better yet we still waste or tears over these guys who aren't worth it...but it's not easy to stop loving and to stop hoping...gosh...don't you sometimes just wish you could hit the 'fast foward' button and then 'play' when you've gotten over that loser and found the right guy 4 u?



Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

This is for u ~~~THANKS CHIC!!~~~ I thought it was only me? But I got him back though---I took him back in and made him feel the same hurt and the same pain that he made me feel o so long ago and when the tables were turned and I actually got the chance to say and do all of the things that he said and did to me---all I could think was -----REVENGE-oh how sweet it is!!!!!!! Big ups to u mah!!!! Stay strong !!!!!!



Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

amen. that was really good. i can totally relate. i was only 15 when that happened...jeez. awful. the good thing is, it hasn't happened since, and i don't plan on letting it.



-rasari



Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

to the ladies that answer this question, all men are not the same and it is a risk that we all take, not just ya'll girls. We all gamble with love like the lottery,the odds are always against us all. It seems that we will never win but to the men and women, we must keep ours heads up and have faith in finding that one true love. And thats REAL!!!!



Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

This unfortunately has happened to me a few times, but as you get older, you start to realize what you are willing to put up with and what you are not. If he stands you up once, unless it's a death in the family, don't buy into it and it will happen again. You need to have the confidence to face what you want in a man and don't settle for anything less. I have made my share of mistakes and fell for one womanizer even, but I've come out of that and just fell in love with a good man who really respects me and cares about me. Good things come to those who wait.



Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

(sniff) that was beautiful!(sob) thankQ so much!!!! ur exactly right, he made a big mistake in letting me go heck that someone made a big mistake in letting all of us go. cause now we have someone better, someone who actually cares and isn't like him at all. thank u so much! god bless u!



Gurlz...Does this apply 2 u and sumthing u r going through or have went through??

u know it happend kinda to me i was preg and we broke up cuz his drinking then we were gone for 2 months fromeachother then he called my mom his mom called my mom we meet up to talk about baby and now we back to gether hapeend over a year ago and we r engaged he asked me

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