Friday, March 30, 2012

How do I protect my child from my attacker.?

I have a parent who used to delight in dehumanising me. She would drag me around by my hair, hit me in the face, and throw objects, like dishes at me. When I was fourteen, she assaulted me while I was taking a shower, and dragged me outside by my hair, wearing nothing but a towel. She would have major temper tantrums, one time she threw herself on the floor and started screaming, another time she picked up her plate in the middle of dinner, and smashed it in to pieces on the table. She told me that the only reason that she didn't kill me was because she didn't know how to get away with it. She would call me special names like pathetic, and then tell me that "I" was a terrible person. I now have a 4 year old daughter who is going to school in September. My "Mother" works for the school division. So far, I've been able to keep my attacker away from my child, but she once went to my wife's work, and told her that once my child is in school, she's going to "talk" to her. What do I do?



How do I protect my child from my attacker.?

i would suggest moving to a different school district...



or have a restraining order put on her so she cant come around your daughter...



How do I protect my child from my attacker.?

Put your child in a different school. Move if you have to. Just because someone reproduces doesn't mean they are capable of parenting. What scares me is that your mother works around children.



How do I protect my child from my attacker.?

Wow. You can always file a restraining order and talk with the school principal explaining the situation. I would also talk with your child, explain what this woman looks like (show her a picture if possible) and have your child tell you immediately if this lady ever confronts her.



Im confused with your post.. is that one of your parents?



How do I protect my child from my attacker.?

File a restraining order. then she should not be able to come close within certain distance to your child. Usually that is far enough where she would not be able to talk to her.



I am sorry for has happened to you and your "mother" deserves not to talk to her child.



Good Luck.



How do I protect my child from my attacker.?

put ur child in a different school



put a restraining order on ur mom, %26amp; call the cops if she does anything innapropriate



she may ave a mental problem, so try 2 distance urself from her, or maybe move away %26amp; dont let her find u?



she could b very dangerous



good luck %26amp; God bless!



- baylee :-)



How do I protect my child from my attacker.?

Why do you have this attacker? You need to call the police or move away. This is not okay. As for your daughter, change her schools and make sure your attacker has no idea. This is scary bussiness, on the first day of school go with her and make sure nothing happens. Tell the principal, teacher, supervisors, and other people about your worry and make sure they keep a close eye on your daughter. But you still need to get rid of this attacker, and when you do be extra careful she can not trace you and assault you.



How do I protect my child from my attacker.?

OMG. I can relate to your fear. I was abused by my mother and have been fearful about her wanting to know my children. For us it is easier, we live in a different state. Perhaps it is time to move or at the very least get your daughter transfered to a different school or home schooled. I don't think you can get a a restraining order if her abuse was never reported, but I could be wrong. Basically though in most states, grandparents have no rights to visitation. Better check this out too and see what the laws are in your state. Good luck.



How do I protect my child from my attacker.?

move to a different state and keep ur identity out of public places like the phone book or any other way she can track you down.



How do I protect my child from my attacker.?

I would go to the principal of your child's school and explain the situation and tell him under NO circumstances is your mother to be around your child. As a matter of fact, your wife should go with you so you can present a "united front". And when your child starts school. talk to her teacher and tell her the same thing. This is a situation you will have to monitor on a daily basis. You might even look into talking to a lawyer and taking out a restraining order. Or putting your kid in a private school. I moved 1200 miles away from home to keep my kids away from the family who hurt me, I know how you feel. Good luck.



How do I protect my child from my attacker.?

File a restraining order and put your child in a different school.



I would also call the school division or tell the headteacher about her. She really shouldn't be working with kids.



How do I protect my child from my attacker.?

I'm sorry all of this happened to you. I would talk to the powers that be and have your child moved. Discuss the situation.



How do I protect my child from my attacker.?

You say she works for the school division.



I am not sure if you mean her school or her district. If it is her school, is it possible to move her to another?



If not, talk to your childs principal/vice prinicipal/counselor and they should be able to put something in place so that she is not able to take your daughter out of class to "talk" to her.



You may also want to request that her teacher or security guard always walk her to her bus or arrange that you pick her up in school.



(A woman like her shouldn't even be near a child or working for a system that is supposed to see to their well being)



If she still attempts to get close to your daughter, you may need to get a restraining order in place and contact her superior. Just to be safe, start documenting everything right now.



Good luck and my apologies for what you had to endure.



How do I protect my child from my attacker.?

Wow, I can't imagine that chilldhood =[. Put your child in another school, anywhere away from that monster.

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